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Be Available<\/span><span class=\"selectDropdown__chevron\"><\/span><\/button><ul class=\"tabsList__items selectDropdown__list\"><li class=\"selectDropdown__list__item tabsList__item selected\"><a href='#h-1-be-available'>1. Be Available<\/a><\/li><li class=\"selectDropdown__list__item tabsList__item \"><a href='#h-2-listen-actively'>2. Listen Actively<\/a><\/li><li class=\"selectDropdown__list__item tabsList__item \"><a href='#h-3-dont-take-negative-reactions-personally'>3. Don&#039;t Take Negative Reactions Personally<\/a><\/li><li class=\"selectDropdown__list__item tabsList__item \"><a href='#h-4-help-maintain-structure-and-routine'>4. Help Maintain Structure and Routine<\/a><\/li><li class=\"selectDropdown__list__item tabsList__item \"><a href='#h-5-be-mindful-of-your-words'>5. Be Mindful of Your Words<\/a><\/li><li class=\"selectDropdown__list__item tabsList__item \"><a href='#h-6-take-care-of-yourself'>6. Take Care of Yourself<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group articleSingle__content__main tabListHeadings is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<section class=\"wp-block-rbc-section-block  pos-rel\" style=\"border-radius:0px\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-rbc-section-inner-block  section-inner\" style=\"border-radius:0x\">\n<p>Life sometimes brings unexpected or unprecedented events that can be emotionally and mentally trying. A messy divorce, a serious illness, a devastating injury, the loss of a spouse or family member can all be traumatic in their own ways.<\/p>\n<p>Watching someone you care for deal with loss may trigger feelings of helplessness if you&#8217;re unsure of what to say or do. Fortunately, there are number of ways to show your support and care for someone who&#8217;s going through a traumatic situation.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-1-be-available\">1. Be Available<\/h4>\n<p>Everyone reacts differently during hard times. The <a href=\"https:\/\/cmha.ca\/documents\/grieving\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Canadian Mental Health Association suggests<\/a>, &#8220;One of the most important things you can do is to simply be there for your loved one. Grief can feel overwhelming, but support and understanding can make a huge difference.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Your friend may want to talk to you more often than usual or they may pull away and want to be alone. In either case, make sure they know that you&#8217;re there for them when and if they want to talk by phone, email, text or even video chat. The situation may feel awkward, but to support your friend, you need to be present, even if you can\u2019t physically be there.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-2-listen-actively\">2. Listen Actively<\/h4>\n<p>As your friend talks through and processes their emotions, the best thing you can do is actively listen to what they are saying, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthlinkbc.ca\/health-topics\/aa129058\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">according to Healthlink BC<\/a>. Active listening means paying attention to the meaning behind their words, thinking about what they&#8217;ve said and responding in a way that shows you understand what they&#8217;re trying to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>In some cases, your friend may not need or want you to respond right away or at all. You may have opinions, advice or thoughts to share, but hold on to them and just listen until your friend invites you to join the conversation.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-3-dont-take-negative-reactions-personally\">3. Don&#8217;t Take Negative Reactions Personally<\/h4>\n<p>Traumatic events can trigger lots of emotions; your friend may be feeling angry, anxious, irritable, fearful, sad or emotionally numb. A difficult situation could make them feel helpless or like they&#8217;re not in control, which could lead them to lash out negatively towards friends and family.<\/p>\n<p>If that happens, it&#8217;s important to remember that those reactions are natural, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mentalhealthcommission.ca\/English\/document\/60986\/helping-yourself-and-others-after-experiencing-traumatic-event-building-self-care-pla\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">says the Mental Health Commission of Canada<\/a>. &#8220;It is very important to reassure the person that stress reactions are normal responses to abnormal events.&#8221; While it may feel as though the reactions are directed at you, they&#8217;re not necessarily personal attacks. You can support your friend by letting them know that it&#8217;s okay to feel the way they do and encouraging them to feel their emotions in a healthy way.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-4-help-maintain-structure-and-routine\">4. Help Maintain Structure and Routine<\/h4>\n<p>Your friend may feel as if their world has been turned upside down and one way to help them is by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.anxietycanada.com\/adults\/returning-routines-pleasant-events\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">reinforcing routines and habits<\/a>. For instance if a friend is having a difficult time with self-isolation and maybe even the loss of a job, when the time is right you might encourage them to participate in activities or hobbies they enjoyed before like exercising, cooking, or <a href=\"https:\/\/discover.rbcinsurance.com\/tiny-changes-that-can-transform-your-life\/?dlref=Discover-Learn-Insurance&amp;dlarticle=Six-Ways-to-Help-a-Friend-or-Loved-One-Going-Through-a-Difficult-Time&amp;dltarget=other-dl-article\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">learning something new<\/a> like knitting or painting.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-5-be-mindful-of-your-words\">5. Be Mindful of Your Words<\/h4>\n<p>When someone is experiencing grief, there are some things they may not want to hear. As you talk to your friend, consider your words carefully. Avoid offering <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/how-to-help-someone-going-through-a-tough-time\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">silver linings<\/a>, trying to fix the situation or asking for more details about a situation than your friend is willing to share. If you&#8217;re not sure what to say, the safest course may be to say nothing at all and just continue listening.<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"h-6-take-care-of-yourself\">6. Take Care of Yourself<\/h4>\n<p>Self-care may be as important for you as it is for your friend during a difficult time. You may want to be there for them 24\/7, but you can&#8217;t be a good support system if you&#8217;re worn down or burned out, according to the <a href=\"https:\/\/ca.ctrinstitute.com\/blog\/compassion-fatigue\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Crisis and Trauma Resource Institute<\/a>. Even professional caregivers may develop compassion fatigue, which is characterized by emotional, mental and physical exhaustion associated with caring for another person through a traumatic event. 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